20 Love Questions
From Adviceopedia
Asking some of these 20 love questions can help you better understand the person you love. When you first fall in love, you are enthralled with your sweetheart and want to know everything about him or her. You want to know his or her hopes, dreams, desires and about his or her life. The following questions will help you explore your soul mate's mind and life.
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The Past
Sometimes learning about someone's past can help you understand how he or she behaves in a current relationship. Ask your significant other some of these love questions to find out how the past influences his or her present.
- Who and when was your first crush?
- When you were growing up, what kind of person did you see yourself falling in love with when you grew up?
- In the past, what were three qualities you looked for in a person?
- What is the first thing you notice about a person of the opposite sex?
- In the past, did you fall in love quickly?
- Have you ever been hurt by an ex?
- Are you friends with any of your prior boyfriends or girlfriends?
The Present
Knowing what your significant other is feeling right now can tell you a lot about whether he or she has the same intense feelings as you do in the relationship.
- What is the best part of your life right now?
- If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be?
- What is the first thing you think about when you wake up?
- What is the last thing you think about when you go to bed at night?
- What do you like about me?
- Which hobbies would you like me to share with you?
- Do your friends like me or think I am right for you?
The Future
No one knows what will happen in the future but it's always good to know if you both have a similar attitude towards life and what you want to accomplish along the way.
- Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
- Do you have a plan in life and is it flexible?
- Do you want children later in life and if so, how many?
- What kind of parent do you believe you will be?
- Where do you want to live someday?
- What three things do you want out of life?
Using 20 Love Questions
When deciding to use 20 love questions remember not to be too sensitive to your significant other's answers. Just because the person does not answer them the way you want doesn't mean the relationship is doomed. These are just for conversation and to spark up interesting discussions. If your significant other seems defensive about some of the questions, explore this with him or her. Sometimes, you will learn more about the person from his or her reactions to the questions than from the answers themselves.
Another way you can use 20 love questions is as a game. You can either use these questions or make up some of your own that might be more relevant to your relationship. Purchase a stack of index cards or make small cards out of paper and write a question on each one. Shuffle the stack of 20 cards and place them face down on a surface. Take turns choosing a card and answering it. Depending on the questions, you can have a few laughs and some serious moments as well.
New and Old Relationships
You can use these questions no matter how new or old your relationship. Just because you have been in a relationship for years doesn't mean you know absolutely everything there is to know about your significant other. You will be amazed at how much you don't know. Try asking some of these questions and then make up your own!
