Advice for Teenage Boys
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From health to relationships, there are plenty of topics to cover when it comes to dispensing advice for teenage boys. The teen years aren't exactly easy, but it may come as some small comfort to know that almost all boys will mull over these issues at some point.
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Helpful Advice for Teenage Boys
Though the memorable experiences that most teenagers go through is enough to fill a pretty hefty book, sometimes a condensed set of questions and answers is all a guy really needs to see him through a minor challenge. Whether it involves getting a date or getting into college, there is plenty of helpful advice for teenage boys readily available.
How Do You Fight Acne?
Almost all teenagers will deal with acne at some point or another. For some, it can be a minor nuisance; for others, it is a lasting affliction causing serious emotional trauma. During the teen years, oil production increases, thereby clogging your pores and causing all kinds of skin issues, including blackheads and whiteheads. Severe acne may cover a large portion of the face. If you are dealing with stubborn pimples that don't go away over time or continue to develop, pay a visit to a dermatologist. He or she may be able to prescribe a strong medication to urge the healing process.
Otherwise, treat minor acne with over the counter treatments. Look for products marked specifically for oily, acne-prone skin. Brands like Clean & Clear and Clearasil both feature extensive acne-fighting products.
How Do You Deal with Depression?
Whether you're dealing with a serious case of the blues or you can't snap out of a major funk, fret not – you are absolutely not alone in these feelings. Part of it is natural; puberty causes an increase in hormones, which can affect your mood in unique ways. You may sometimes feel angry, sad or depressed for no real reason.
Other times, though, the reasons are chemical. If you experience extreme mood swings, feelings of self-hatred or suicidal thoughts, it is essential to seek the attention of a professional. Since this in itself is not an easy first step to take, consider sharing your thoughts with your parents, a school counselor or another trustworthy adult. Remember that your feelings are valid and that you are worth it.
How Do You Choose a College?
If you're a high school junior, now is the time to start looking to the future! The right college for you is based on several important factors, including location, curriculum and student life. All of these elements are important. If you wish to stay close to home, you may limit your choices to a few select schools. If sports are important to you, you might seek out schools with strong athletic programs. Discuss these factors with your academic advisor and parents – it is always helpful to have a few opinions on the matter.
How Do You Ask Someone Out?
If you're trying to psych yourself up to ask someone out, chances are you're dealing with major butterflies. There are two ways to look at this situation: You can swallow your fears and just go for it or you can dwell on the "what ifs" for days and worry about things that may not even happen. Going for it is easier said than done, so it's helpful to keep these tips in mind:
- Always look the part. Don't show up disheveled and sweaty after football practice. On the other hand, there's no need to overdo it either – aftershave and a suit are not necessary. Simply looking neat will do!
- Take it slowly. The other person is just that – a person. Make conversation as you would with any other friend. This will ensure a certain level of comfort before you get to the point of actually asking for a date.
- Think about an enjoyable activity for both of you. If there's a movie you know the other person wants to see, suggest seeing it together. Bring up a newly opened restaurant and mention that you think it would be fun to check out this weekend. Go with the flow!
How Do You Save Money?
With all the movies, pizzas, parties, concerts and sporting events on your agenda, saving money might seem impossible at this stage. The good news is that it's absolutely not! The most important tip is to spend wisely. If those concert tickets cost a fortune, consider skipping the show. No, it's not a fun alternative, but there will be other concerts – and you'll be a little bit richer than you would be otherwise.
In addition to keeping frivolous spending to a minimum, take stock of your personal possessions. You probably own more than a few items you never use, whether clothing, video games or DVDs, to name a few. Whatever it is, consider selling it online. Even if it's for a minimal amount, you'll clear some clutter and make a little extra cash in the process. Finally, make a "fun stuff" account, where you save a certain percentage of your earnings for shopping or activities with friends. Put the rest into the bank. It will grow over time.
Other Issues
Whether you're dealing with a serious or less important issue, never be afraid to talk it over with an adult you trust. If you truly feel you can't speak with someone you know, consider asking your school's counselor for a recommended teen hotline phone number. These are ideal for people who wish to remain anonymous.
